Awakened Relating Application Form: Part 1

Each question invites deep self-reflection. After submitting your form, record an up to 20-minute video or voice message summarising your reflections and inner truth.

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First name

Last name

Birthday

Day

Month

Year

Your Attachment System

If this is new to you, read briefly on Attachment Theory before answering.

How do you bond and seek safety in love?

How do you respond to closeness, distance, or conflict?

Your Triggers in Love

What moments, words, or behaviours most trigger you?

How do you experience those triggers in your body and mind?

Your Responses to Triggers

When you’re most activated, what do you do?

Describe your patterns of fight, flight, freeze, or fawn.

What helps you regulate and return to love?

Your Essence as Man / Woman / Being

What does it mean to you to be a man, woman, or however you identify?

What are your strengths and sacred responsibilities in love?

What is the essence of your heart - what do you uniquely bring to your counterpart?

Your Relational History

Have you been in intimate relationships before? If yes, how long ago was your previous relationship?

How did they begin and end?

What patterns or lessons have you noticed?

If you haven’t been an intimate relationship or you have gone a long period of time since your previous intimate relationship - what is the reason?

What have you learned about your own contribution to relationship dynamics?

Family & Early Bonds

Describe your current relationship with your mother and father (or early caregivers).

What was most challenging about growing up with or without them?

How do those early dynamics show up now in love (e.g. avoidance, anxiety, fear of intimacy, hyper-independence, etc.)?

Who Are You?

Who are you beyond your roles and stories?

Do you enjoy solitude, or does it challenge you?

Do you relate to a higher essence - God, Source, Nature, the Universe, Ancestors, The Great Mystery?

How does that connection inform the way you love?

Sex & Death

Do you watch pornography? Why or why not?

What is your relationship to your own sexual energy - desire, frequency, practices (e.g. semen retention)?

What is sex to you - connection, release, devotion, creation?

Have you experienced wounding or disconnection in sexuality, and how are you tending to it?

What is your relationship with death — endings, surrender, and impermanence?

Communication & Conflict

How do you express truth in relationships?

What is your communication style under stress?

How do you repair after rupture?

Boundaries & Sovereignty

What does healthy boundary-keeping mean to you?

Where do you over-give or over-protect?

How do you balance openness with discernment?

How do you relate to personal sovereignty - in your body, mind, and choices?

What does self-responsibility for your health, energy, and wellbeing look like to you?

How do you navigate collective systems (e.g. health, education, government) while staying true to your own inner authority and moral compass?

Healing Journey

What have been your most important healing or awakening moments?

Which modalities, mentors, or medicines have most impacted you?

What shadows are you still working with?

Vision of Love

What is your vision of an awakened relationship?

What are the qualities of the love you are calling in?

What kind of union do you feel ready for?

Readiness & Self-Responsibility

How do you hold yourself accountable in relationship?

What do you do when things get difficult?

How do you discern projection from perception?

PLEASE CONTINUE ON PART 2 OF THIS APPLICATION FORM...

Awakened Relating Application Form: Part 2

Values & Lifestyle Alignment

How do you live in integrity day to day?

What are your core values (truth, freedom, devotion, family, nature, service, etc.)?

What kind of life are you building - and what kind of partner would thrive beside you?

Final Reflection

Why do you feel called to join the Awakened Relating Community?

What are you hoping to discover, transform, or embody here?

And are you willing to commit to this first agreement:

“To use relationship as a mirror for your own awakening - standing in full sovereignty and self-responsibility.”

Yes

Closing Note

Your answers are held in sacred confidence.We’re not looking for perfection... only truth.

If we sense that 1:1 work would serve you first, we’ll lovingly recommend that path before community admission.

With heart and gratitude,

Águila & Nebular Cor

Founders of Interbeing.love